Making lemonade out of lemons. That’s been my mantra for much of my life. Well…that and a reasonably dependable sense of humor. It was probably a coping mechanism of sorts; a natural by-product of my lanky build and an ill-advised bowl-cut that I sported for almost 4 years (which by the way, is 4 years too many). But nevertheless, all it takes is a little bit of tragedy in life to help us all appreciate all of life’s little successes. And all it took was a minor weather anomaly (which pretty much brought NYC to its knees) to bring Yoonji & Sean together at their local bar, where Sean pretty much offered himself up as bait to lure in the catch of the century (not his words, but close enough). The weather gods and the stars were certainly aligned in their favor, and after that fateful night at their hometown bar, their destinies had been sealed. These two lovebirds now hang their hats in Jersey City, and were gracious enough to show me a slice of their life, their neighborhood, and their love of tacos with yours truly.

Fun Jersey City engagement session with the NYC skyline, captured by North Jersey wedding photographer Ben Lau. Fun Jersey City engagement session with the NYC skyline, captured by North Jersey wedding photographer Ben Lau. Fun Jersey City engagement session with the NYC skyline, captured by North Jersey wedding photographer Ben Lau. Fun Jersey City engagement session with the NYC skyline, captured by North Jersey wedding photographer Ben Lau. Fun Jersey City engagement session with the NYC skyline, captured by North Jersey wedding photographer Ben Lau. Fun Jersey City engagement session with the NYC skyline, captured by North Jersey wedding photographer Ben Lau. Fun Jersey City engagement session with the NYC skyline, captured by North Jersey wedding photographer Ben Lau. Fun Jersey City engagement session with the NYC skyline, captured by North Jersey wedding photographer Ben Lau. Fun Jersey City engagement session with the NYC skyline, captured by North Jersey wedding photographer Ben Lau. Fun Jersey City engagement session with the NYC skyline, captured by North Jersey wedding photographer Ben Lau. Fun Jersey City engagement session with the NYC skyline, captured by North Jersey wedding photographer Ben Lau. Fun Jersey City engagement session with the NYC skyline, captured by North Jersey wedding photographer Ben Lau.

Brooklyn natives Ksenia & Mikhail were so much fun to photograph. We loved wandering around the old stomping grounds of my childhood, from the Prospect Park Boathouse all the way to Coney Island for their lovely Brooklyn engagement session. These two first met overseas – so what are the chances that two NY natives would bump into each other halfway around the world? But they found each other, fair and square. The universe has a funny way of working sometimes – and sometimes they come along with heart-shaped balloons :).

Prospect Park & Coney Island engagement session in Brooklyn, captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau. Prospect Park & Coney Island engagement session in Brooklyn, captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau. Prospect Park & Coney Island engagement session in Brooklyn, captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau. Prospect Park & Coney Island engagement session in Brooklyn, captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau. Prospect Park & Coney Island engagement session in Brooklyn, captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau. Prospect Park & Coney Island engagement session in Brooklyn, captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau. Prospect Park & Coney Island engagement session in Brooklyn, captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau. Prospect Park & Coney Island engagement session in Brooklyn, captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau. Prospect Park & Coney Island engagement session in Brooklyn, captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau. Prospect Park & Coney Island engagement session in Brooklyn, captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau. Prospect Park & Coney Island engagement session in Brooklyn, captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau. Prospect Park & Coney Island engagement session in Brooklyn, captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau. Prospect Park & Coney Island engagement session in Brooklyn, captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.

For several months, Zoe & Stephen had plans for a sunny Spring engagement session filled with gorgeous sun flares and golden hues across the afternoon sky. Unfortunately for us, Mother Nature had different plans for us. After several reschedules, we finally relented, and opted for the next best course of action: finding one the most gorgeous greenhouses in the NYC metropolitan area, and pray that they wouldn’t be charging us the equivalent of the GDP of a small country. The Planting Fields Arboretum easily checked off all the boxes for us, and off we went to (sorta kinda) play in the rain. Luckily for us, Mother Nature did offer us a little bit of respite from the rain, and the canopy of trees at the Planting Fields Arboretum provided plenty of cover from the elements while these two lovebirds showed of some of their sweet, sweet dance moves from the cameras!

Planting Fields Arboretum engagement session in Long Island, captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau. Planting Fields Arboretum engagement session in Long Island, captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau. Planting Fields Arboretum engagement session in Long Island, captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau. Planting Fields Arboretum engagement session in Long Island, captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau. Planting Fields Arboretum engagement session in Long Island, captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau. Planting Fields Arboretum engagement session in Long Island, captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau. Planting Fields Arboretum engagement session in Long Island, captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau. Planting Fields Arboretum engagement session in Long Island, captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau. Planting Fields Arboretum engagement session in Long Island, captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau. Planting Fields Arboretum engagement session in Long Island, captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau. Planting Fields Arboretum engagement session in Long Island, captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau. Planting Fields Arboretum engagement session in Long Island, captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.

We love it when our couples bring other family members along for their engagement sessions – more specifically, the furry kind with wet noses and floppy ears. And if by some strange coincidence, your Uncle Joe fits that description, that’s fine too :). Samantha and Rich had originally scheduled their engagement session earlier this Spring – but our seasons have been very unusual around these parts, and we didn’t quite get the greenery we wanted. There was a slight risk it would be ridiculously humid and buggy at the NJ Botanical Garden around this time of year, but we couldn’t have asked for a more awesome day!

New Jersey Botanical Garden engagement session, captured by North Jersey wedding photographer Ben Lau. New Jersey Botanical Garden engagement session, captured by North Jersey wedding photographer Ben Lau. New Jersey Botanical Garden engagement session, captured by North Jersey wedding photographer Ben Lau. New Jersey Botanical Garden engagement session, captured by North Jersey wedding photographer Ben Lau. New Jersey Botanical Garden engagement session, captured by North Jersey wedding photographer Ben Lau. New Jersey Botanical Garden engagement session, captured by North Jersey wedding photographer Ben Lau. New Jersey Botanical Garden engagement session, captured by North Jersey wedding photographer Ben Lau. New Jersey Botanical Garden engagement session, captured by North Jersey wedding photographer Ben Lau. New Jersey Botanical Garden engagement session, captured by North Jersey wedding photographer Ben Lau. New Jersey Botanical Garden engagement session, captured by North Jersey wedding photographer Ben Lau.


Several years ago, I took my wife out to dinner at a nice restaurant in the West Village. We had come across this particular restaurant on one of those restaurant documentary shows in Netflix – so we were both super stoked to be finally experiencing this restaurant in person.

The hostess greeted us warmly, and welcomed us to the bar as we waited for our table. The drinks were honestly some of the most delicious concoctions we’d ever had in our lives. Dinner was even better, which looked/tasted better than anything we could’ve ever imagined. Then arrived the dessert menu, which presented itself with 2 options:

1. Chocolate cake a la mode
2. Homemade apple pie

I kindly asked the waitress if I could have the apple pie with vanilla ice cream instead – a request which was flatly denied without any hesitation. I even offered to pay extra for the hassle, or even both desserts as separate items – and was denied again.

At this very moment, I was (mildly) peeved – why would they deny such a trivial request? Pie and ice cream just makes perfect sense, right? What could possibly be so objectionable about that? “I’m sorry sir, but we don’t do that here.” she said, before politely smiling and walking away.

It took several years of introspection (because my ability to hold a grudge is surprisingly uncanny) to finally conclude that maybe the restaurant’s policy on customizing desserts wasn’t so bizarre and strange after all. This revelation occurred to me as I was dining omakase at a Japanese restaurant, where a chef pretty much decides what you’ll be eating. Just imagine this: your personal chef would have spent his entire professional life combining textures and flavors in order to bring about the most incredible culinary experience you’ll ever have – and you’ll simply be there to receive all that yummy amazingness, no questions asked. Granted, there is a boatload of trust involved, and this probably isn’t the most ideal dining arrangement if you have food allergies/preferences. So while you don’t necessarily have to eat everything in front of you while dining omakase, it’s universally accepted that the chef will always offer his culinary creations on his own terms, period.

So why am I telling this story?

Having been a professional photographer over these past 8 years, we’ve seen all kinds of advice and special requests to alter the way we shoot/edit our images, write our contracts, and even how we run our business. In the beginning of our career, we would honor most of these requests because we were genuinely new to all of this and simply didn’t know any better; our portfolio would pretty much be all over the place in terms of style and color, and we’d have 6 different versions of a contract going out to the same group of friends. To say it was a chaotic first few years would be the understatement of the century. It took us several years of “experience” to finally build up enough confidence to say “Enough was enough – these were our products/services, this is how we’re going to produce/deliver them, and based on that information, prospective clients can decide whether or not we’re the right fit for them.” Once we decided to build a business and brand on our terms, our lives were forever changed for the better. After years and years of struggling, there was finally consistency, growth, and most importantly, appreciation.

Just like in the omakase restaurant story above, our clients fully understand what they’re getting themselves into when they invite us to document one of the most important days in their lives (it also doesn’t hurt that our online reviews read like a Carfax report). We understand and appreciate that many of our clients relinquish a great deal of control to a person they barely know, for one super important day that happens only once in a lifetime – but they’ve read the reviews, seen the work, and have reasonably concluded that they’ll be in good hands one way or another. In these 8 years of blood, sweat, and tears, we’ve developed a formula that’s done a wonderful job for our portfolio, clients, as well as our business. So why on God’s green earth would anyone want to mess with that?

Probably for the same reasons why some nincompoop in the West Village is demanding ice cream to go with great-grandma’s 90 year-old apple pie recipe:).